30 Day Writing Challenge

#15 Wholly Strange and New by Bridget Pilloud

When good is near you, when you have life in yourself, it is not by any known or accustomed way; you shall not discern the foot-prints of any other; you shall not see the face of man; you shall not hear any name;—— the way, the thought, the good, shall be wholly strange and new. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Can you remember a moment in your life when you had life in yourself and it was wholly strange and new? Can you remember the moment when you stopped walking a path of someone else, and started cutting your own?

Write about that moment. And if you haven’t experienced it yet, let the miracle play out in your mind’s eye and write about that moment in your future.

(Author:

Bridget Pilloud)

In the normal course of childhood I got involved with the Cub Scouts. My mother was involved in helping with the leadership. I worked through and completed all the ranks with her prodding.

Later I moved up to Boy Scouts and was fortunate to be involved in Troop 70, the Jamboree Troop. Troop 70 is perhaps the most outstanding troop in the United States having helped 430 boys obtain the rank of Eagle Scout over the last 80 years. My scoutmaster was Lon Sailers who served as scoutmaster for 38 years. During the Lon's tenure he guided 238 scouts to receive their Eagle Scout award.

My mother kept me focused on completing all of the ranks. Yes, she pushed, cajoled, and reminded me until I completed all 21 merit badges. I received my Eagle Scout award September 1, 1956. I went on to receive several more merit badges and my God and Country award.

This experience set me up to be a life time learner and taught me the power of perseverance which has served me well all my life. On May 1, 1957 my brother, David, received his Eagle Scout award. My mother now had received two small silver Eagle pins representing her two Eagle Scout sons. She had these made into earrings and she proudly wore them frequently. When she died, we buried her wearing her Eagle pins. Through her perseverance we learned that through perseverance we could accomplish much!

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#14 One Thing by Colin Wright

Do your work, and I shall know you. Do your work, and you shall reinforce yourself. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Take a moment, step back from your concerns, and focus on one thing: You have one life to achieve everything you’ve ever wanted. Sounds simple, but when you really focus on it, let it seep into your consciousness, you realize you only have about 100 years to get every single thing you’ve ever wanted to do. No second chances. This is your only shot.

Suddenly, this means you should have started yesterday. No more waiting for permission or resources to start. Today is the day you make the rest of your life happen. Write down one thing you’ve always wanted to do and how you will achieve that goal. Don’t be afraid to be very specific in how you’ll achieve it: once you start achieving, your goals will get bigger and your capability to meet them will grow.

(Author: Colin Wright)

Several years ago we began a team that focused on providing insurance risk management and bonding to the construction industry. My desire would be to continue that process and take what we've done to the next level.

Mike Vance defines leadership as "the ability to establish and manage a creative climate where people are self-motivated to the completion of long-term constructive goals compatible with personal values in an environment of mutual respect". Earlier this year as we reflected on the changes at the construction team needed to make, I thought about Mike's comment and saw that I had not lived up his definition. I purposed to get my team members engaged more in the development process.

We saw the need for a change in our approach to the construction industry. Initially, this centered around our presentations. We needed new, fresh or approaches. We brought in Tim Pollard to teach us the skills of designing and delivering great presentations. He did a day and a half workshop with all our team members.

We decided on five new presentations. Armed with the new knowledge from Tim, other team members began working on four new presentations. One of the team members has presented his new presentation to the team and it is excellent. Three other presentations are actively being developed now. We are now beginning to develop prospect lists on the new areas that we are approaching and will implement business development activities and each of these new areas.

The world is changing and we've got to go with the new ways of contacting and communicating. This new approach will utilize Linked In, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube. We are beginning a weekly blog which will be named TRENDS. The team members will share responsibility to consistently write our weekly blog posts. The standard is information of high-value each week.

Today's blog post brings me a great deal satisfaction in that I can see I am beginning to lead in the way Mike Vance has defined leadership.

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#13 Alternative Paths by Jonathan Fields

When good is near you, when you have life in yourself, it is not by any known or accustomed way; you shall not discern the foot-prints of any other; you shall not see the face of man; you shall not hear any name; the way, the thought, the good, shall be wholly strange and new. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

The world buzzes about goals and visions. Focus. Create a vivid picture of exactly where you want to go. Dream big, then don’t let anything or anyone stop you. The problem, as Daniel Gilbert wrote in Stumbling Upon Happiness, is that we’re horrible at forecasting how we’ll really feel 10 or 20 years from now – once we’ve gotten what we dreamed of. Often, we get there only to say, “That’s not what I thought it would be,” and ask, “What now?”

Ambition is good. Blind ambition is not. It blocks out not only distraction, but the many opportunities that might take you off course but that may also lead you in a new direction. Consistent daily action is only a virtue when bundled with a willingness to remain open to the unknown. In this exercise, look at your current quest and ask, “What alternative opportunities, interpretations and paths am I not seeing?” They’re always there, but you’ve got to choose to see them.

(Author: Jonathan Fields)


I like the practicality of this one. While the continual pursuit of valuable goals leads to a richness of life, if we are too myopic and focused we may miss the things that pop up on the trip. Things totally unexpected, unforeseeable, and unimaginable suddenly magically appear.

Dan Sullivan calls these Strategic Byproducts of the goal cultivation process. Frequently these have more value or usefulness than the original goal or project. Therefore it is critically important to look for or even expect a Strategic Byproduct to show up. Having this expectation makes sure we don't miss it when it arrives.

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#12 Surprise by Ashley Ambirge



I will not hide my tastes or aversions. I will so trust that what is deep is holy, if we follow the truth, it will bring us out safe at last. – Ralph Waldo Emerson



Think of a time when you didn’t think you were capable of doing something, but then surprised yourself. How will you surprise yourself this week?



(Author: Ashley Ambirge)


In my life there have been many times I did things that I wasn't confident I could do. Most of the time I was surprised by how well it went. Occasionally it did not, but the experience always was a learning one. Dan Sullivan calls these experiences The Greatest Teacher In The World. We frequently learn more from our failures than our successes.

I became involved in Peacemaker Ministries through being in a leadership position in a church that blew up. Peacemaker taught me to approach conflict by confronting it directly with love, following biblical principles, with the expectation of finding resolution. Most of the time people in conflict are satisfied by telling their stories, acknowledging their part, and giving and receiving amends. I'm surprised that I can deal with conflict now by facing it.

Facing my fears leads to freedom for me. My surprise this week is been getting bogged down in this writing project, deciding I was going to complete it, and how much easier the writing has been as I just started it each day!

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#11 Fear by Lachlan Cotter

These are the voices which we hear in solitude, but they grow faint and inaudible as we enter into the world. Society everywhere is in conspiracy against the manhood of every one of its members. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Is fear holding you back from living your fullest life and being truly self expressed? Put yourself in the shoes of the you who’s already lived your dream and write out the answers to the following:

Is the insecurity you’re defending worth the dream you’ll never realize? or the love you’ll never venture? or the joy you’ll never feel?

Will the blunder matter in 10 years? Or 10 weeks? Or 10 days? Or 10 minutes?

Can you be happy being anything less than who you really are?

Now Do. The Thing. You Fear.

(Author: Lachlan Cotter)

OKAY

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#10 Divine Idea by Fabian Kruse

Imitation is Suicide. Insist on yourself; never imitate. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Write down in which areas of your life you have to overcome these suicidal tendencies of imitation, and how you can transform them into a newborn you – one that doesn’t hide its uniqueness, but thrives on it. There is a “divine idea which each of us represents” – which is yours?

(Author: Fabian Kruse)


Brennan Manning in his short book The Rabbi's Heartbeat writes about overcoming The Impostor, that false self that we put on as a mask when we go out in the world. I have made great progress in not putting The Mask on but it is still a struggle especially when I want impress, gain favor, or "fix" someone close to me. The progress is that most of the time I have an awareness of what I'm about to do and I can make a choice.

Mike Vance said that creativity is the creation of something new or the rearranging of something old and a new way. Is the rearrangement of something old in a new way imitation? - maybe so, maybe not. Since most of my creativity is the rearranging of something old in a new way, I would say not.

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#9 Your Personal Message by Eric Handler

To believe your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men, that is genius. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

What is burning deep inside of you? If you could spread your personal message RIGHT NOW to 1 million people, what would you say?

(Author: Eric Handler)


I am passionate about each person's ability to dream and achieve. Many times that just needs to be awakened within them. I love mentoring others and part of the privilege of doing that with another is you frequently get to see significant changes as the "light comes on".

I'm finding this exercise very challenging because it is making me think about what I will do with what I have left in my life. So my challenge to you is to take steps to be continually challenged, to evaluate your life and where you want to be, find a mentor, hire a coach, do this 30 day challenge, join a group of like-minded friends, get accountable, set one year goals in all areas of your life and evaluate them monthly. Just do it . . . now!

30 Day Writig Challenge - 5 Years

#8 Five Years by Corbett Barr

There will be an agreement in whatever variety of actions, so they be each honest and natural in their hour. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

What would you say to the person you were five years ago? What will you say to the person you’ll be in five years?

(Author: Corbett Barr)

Tom , Thanks for getting reinvolved in Strategic Coach after your bout with cancer and applying the tools to all areas in your life over the last 5 years. What a trip! I like the person I've become.

Future Tom, 5 years ago we looked back at the 5 years before that day with joy and satisfaction at our accomplishments and progress in life. As we looked to the future there was some confusion about what you would focus on for the next chapter but Wow! . . . look at the results . . . and it all started when you decided to do that 30 Day Writing Challenge with all those pointed, aggravating, difficut, thought provoking, and yes . . . life changing questions.

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30 Day Writing Challenge - Dare To Be Bold

#7 Dare To Be Bold by Matt Cheuvront

Our arts, our occupations, our marriages, our religion, we have not chosen, but society has chosen for us. We are parlour soldiers. We shun the rugged battle of fate, where strength is born. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Next to Resistance, rational thought is the artist or entrepreneurs worst enemy. Bad things happen when we employ rational thought, because rational thought comes from the ego. Instead, we want to work from the Self, that is, from instinct and intuition, from the unconscious.

A child has no trouble believing the unbelievable, nor does the genius or the madman. Its only you and I, with our big brains and our tiny hearts, who doubt and overthink and hesitate.” - Steven Pressfield, Do the Work

The idea of “being realistic” holds all of us back. From starting a business or quitting a job to dating someone who may not be our type or moving to a new place – getting “real” often means putting your dreams on hold.

Today, let’s take a step away from rational thought and dare to be bold. What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to accomplish but have been afraid to pursue? Write it down. Also write down the obstacles in your way of reaching your goal. Finally, write down a tangible plan to overcome each obstacle.

The only thing left is to, you know, actually go make it happen. What are you waiting for?

(Author: Matt Cheuvront)

I've been procrastinating on this one and I'm not ready to answer . . . so I'll be back to you.

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#6 Come Alive by Jonathan Mead

Life wastes itself while we are preparing to live. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

If you had one week left to live, would you still be doing what you’re doing now? In what areas of your life are you preparing to live? Take them off your To Do list and add them to a To Stop list. Resolve to only do what makes you come alive.

Bonus: How can your goals improve the present and not keep you in a perpetual “always something better” spiral?

(Author: Jonathan Mead)

I agree with The Lilli Effect so I won't comment on one week left to live . However, I will focus on goals. For the last 12 years I have been a part of Strategic Coach and as a result have accomplished far more than I could of imagined when I began the program. Dan Sullivan focuses on a lifetime approach of goal cultivation. Dan has given me well over 50 or 62 tools to use in accomplishing goals.

Right now I have two principal issues that are stealing my joy and passion. One is procrastination and the other is not doing what I love to do. I procrastinate because I have too many options. There are so many good things, I don't focus on the best . . . I try to do them all. Also I do what I "should" (My friend, Tom, tells me to quit shoulding on myself).

I know the solution and that is to START doing ONE thing and also to only work on those things that I love to do. Obviously, the things I don't like to do need to be done but they can be done by somebody else.

One of the things that I've learned from Dan is that true free time allows me to recharge my batteries and rejuvenate my creativity. I'm not taking enough free time the way he defines it - when on free time I can't do one business related thing or I blow the value of free time and defuse its value.

The second thing I need to do is reduce the options that I have to choose from to a very few that I love and have a passion about. The combination of free time plus focusing on my unique ability energize me.

Yeah, I know . . . Just Do It!

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#5 Travel by Chris Guillebeau

If we live truly, we shall see truly. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Not everyone wants to travel the world, but most people can identify at least one place in the world they’d like to visit before they die. Where is that place for you, and what will you do to make sure you get there?

(Author: Chris Guillebeau)

For a long time I have wanted to go on a photography trip to the Grand Canyon and othe spots in Utah. I will schedule a trip befor the end of 2012.

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#4 Post-it Question by Jenny Blake

That which each can do best, none but his Maker can teach him. Where is the master who could have taught Shakespeare? Where is the master who could have instructed Franklin, or Washington, or Bacon, or Newton? . . . Shakespeare will never be made by the study of Shakespeare. Do that which is assigned you, and you cannot hope too much or dare too much. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Identify one of your biggest challenges at the moment (ie I don’t feel passionate about my work) and turn it into a question (ie How can I do work I’m passionate about?) Write it on a post-it and put it up on your bathroom mirror or the back of your front door. After 48-hours, journal what answers came up for you and be sure to evaluate them.

Bonus: tweet or blog a photo of your post-it.

(Author: Jenny Blake)

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#3. One Strong Belief by Buster Benson

It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude. - Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance

The world is powered by passionate people, powerful ideas, and fearless action. What’s one strong belief you possess that isn’t shared by your closest friends or family? What inspires this belief, and what have you done to actively live it?
(Author: Buster Benson)

Being a lifelong learner is a centerpiece to my journey through life. Although I was already actively seeking knowledge, I began to understand that it was a part of my fabric at a Mike Vance seminar on Creative Leadership. Mike said, “You will be the same person tomorrow as you are today except for the books you read and the people you encounter.” Mike fueled the fire within me.

I have a growing, endless curiosity about a wide variety of subjects and I am fascinated with passionate people and powerful, intriguing ideas. I read constantly, search the internet for information as I focus on particular subjects, and regularly dialogue with people. TED Talks is an outstanding website. I spend time mentoring people one on one and in groups. I have found that I receive more than I give in these relationships. Some would say this constant learning quest is an obsession . . . I prefer to think of it as a passion!


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#2. Liz Danzico – Today

Your genuine action will explain itself, and will explain your other genuine actions. Your conformity explains nothing. The force of character is cumulative. – Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance

If ‘the voyage of the best ship is a zigzag line of a hundred tracks,’ then it is more genuine to be present today than to recount yesterdays. How would you describe today using only one sentence?

Tell today’s sentence to one other person. Repeat each day.
(Author: Liz Danzico)

All the days of my past are valuable to me as I make choices today that lead to my future based self tomorrow.
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#1. Gwen Bell – 15 Minutes to Live

We are afraid of truth, afraid of fortune, afraid of death, and afraid of each other. Our age yields no great and perfect persons. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

You just discovered you have fifteen minutes to live.

1. Set a timer for fifteen minutes.

2. Write the story that has to be written.
(Author: Gwen Bell)

All that I am & all that I have is only through the grace & blessings of my Lord Jesus Christ. Thank You . . . for Your love; for my Ann Day, Jennifer, Leanne, Jim, Mike, Taylor, Anna Grace, Porter, & David. Thank You for the hundreds of friends You have used to shape me into the man You wanted me to be. I am grateful for the wonderful life You allowed me to live here and eternally grateful I’ll be with You forever in the next. May all who read this be challenged to discover You . . . John 3:16,17.
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